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Personal reflections on getting older

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TRAVEL

My travel insurance went up this year: being over-75 and breaking my wrist a couple of months ago might have had something to do with...

THE COMPUTER SAYS NO,...AND SO MIGHT I

In what must have been the 1970s when there was an early shortage of computer programmers, I was invited to do an aptitude test to train...

You think you're all right....

There’s a scene at the beginning of the 1990 film Ghost , in which Patrick Swayze gets up after being attacked in the street, looks...

AND DID THOSE FEET

The state of my feet!  One foot bandaged to support a sprain; the other sporting a newly plastered toe where the first sandals of summer...

POSSESSIONS

Somewhere between being a sentimental hoarder and a minimalist, I hold onto possessions that have meaning for me and chuck out everything...

PLANS AND PROMISES

Old age and retirement can sometimes feel like a welcome opportunity to do less, or, more often, to promise oneself to do only those...

RETREATING FROM POLITICS... ALMOST

I’ve just sent a letter to my MP about Assisted Dying.  I’ve also signed a petition asking for a debate in the Houses of Parliament on...

WALKING, NOT TALKING

A family member in his 70s, good at sports and working out in the gym, says he can’t see the point of walking.  Children straggling...

INFLUENCERS

There have always been Influencers with a capital ‘I’.... historically more likely to be religious zealots, poets and philosophers. ...

THE EMPTY SPACE

When Elon Musk announced last month that Artificial Intelligence would mean eventually no-one would have to work, I imagine it sent a...

OLD AND YOUNG

Looking through a friend’s old photograph album, my friend stopped at a picture of a young woman in a colourful jacket looking sideways...

TIREDNESS...but not much sleep

Working past normal retirement age and thinking I was fit enough to do so, I nevertheless feared falling asleep in front of my clients in...

A FALLEN TREE

On a recent walk, I came across a dead pigeon at the side of the road, a worm on the pavement and a fallen tree in park land. The...

LETTER TO DI

A bit off-piste this one: an imaginary letter I wrote for my Writers' Group. I think it speaks to us, though, about knowing when to pass...

I WOZ 'ERE

A few decades ago, I woz ere seemed to be carved into every tree in my local park usually followed by initials, sometimes by a date. Now...

Implements, Short-cuts, Devices

I have just gouged out the top of a ‘cream cleaner’ bottle (the yellow stuff for scouring the bath and basin) with a sharp pair of...

LOSS OF A SON

If you look up a list of expected losses in older age you will find the following: loss of health, loss of parents, loss of career, loss...

SCARVES etc

At an age when my mother had descended from old to elderly, I would sometimes have to search for something she’d lost in her room. One...

ON NOT BEING VERY ILL

Given that I know people who’ve had cancer or a heart attack by this age, it seems a bit feeble to complain of not-quite-flu, especially...

FRIENDS & CHRISTMAS CARDS

I was imaging writing that my Christmas Card list would be shorter this year. Actually, it’s the same length as usual. Why then this...

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